Should we place the cards?

Love the people would know something about their future and so there is the Internet a few offers that promise to predict a future. For example, you can set up online tarot cards. What to make of this? In the Old Testament it is strongly discouraged because you should trust only one, namely God the…

Can we humans change?

It is not that someone will change, just because you this would permanently give any tips. Change starts from the inside out. Therefore, it is useful if someone or someone’s behavior might disturb one that you start first of all with himself. The other will not go away with night? If one is so far…

Yes, no, maybe, I do not know

If you ask people for example, whether they want to do something, or if they want to help one respond some: I do not know. Either this is the elegant way to say no, or at least the one in which they themselves do not meet resistance when you pronounce this indirect No. Or does…

About the nature and mischief of to-do lists

Many people lead them in different ways. The one digital, the other in a planner, some as separate pieces of paper. To-do lists are useful if you have to do more than two or three things to separate the important from the unimportant and, where possible, not to forget the important thing. but they can…

Do dreams sometimes see the future?

There are several ways you can deal with dreams. The psychologically established is that you make certain archetypes find in dreams and accordingly interpreting the dreams. Because psychologically, the brain continues during sleep and suggests events of the past day. If one focuses in this respect the interpretation of dreams, one can deduce interesting conclusions…

Easy easy

The word simply/easy has an unnoticed economy in the language and in everyday use. It has crept so and it seems as if you could break down everything in a simple manner and solved by using this word. These are precisely the things that are not simply in which this word is used as a…

Don’t your shoes make you happy?

There are certain life coach in the literature who think that we should give up the things that do not make you happy. Simplify your life, less is more. On the one hand this may be true. On the other hand, result from the fact the same questions. Your shoes do not make you happy?…

Children nowadays have more self control

The children of today are no longer what they once were? That’s not true. 1968 subjected psychologists several children a test. Either they got a candy immediately, or if they could wait a few minutes, they got two candy. This test was then repeated recently and it did not come out of what had foreseen…

Sometimes it needs to be more

There are somehow “not get enough” people. The strive to have the power to be rich to have a big house to have a big car, much to have in regard to other people to be able to influence others, women or men to prevail, although you never can have people and anyway basically nothing…

Dum loquimur, tempus iam fugit. Itaque carpe diem!

As we speak, already the time flees. Therefore, seize the day! This wisdom today are still relevant, but come in this form by the Roman poet Horace in the first century BC. The only question how you have to use his time wisely and properly will? So many people you ask, so many answers will…

Three important points for a successful life

Translated from German to English with google translator. According to Alfred Adler, the founder of individual psychology, a psychotherapist from Austria, there are three pillars in the life of every person that is important that the person feels his life as meaningful and succeeding in. These pillars are love, friends and work. It is assumed…

How do you use your life?

The better question should really have been, as you use today? We humans know that our life is finite and eventually the time will come when it ends well. We all hope that this will not take long as possible and usually we are thus probably correct. Nevertheless, it is well that death is not…

What is important in life?

There are so all sorts of things to which you should pay attention in life. Personal relations, democracy, peace, a moderate lifestyle, tolerance and so on. Who wants to have the whole thing in a handy set for which there is below one, in English. Although it is not a success guide for a successful…

Do you trust me?

When people encounter new to meet people, especially in romantic relationships, often falls that portentous sentence. Do you trust me? What is meant here implicitly but usually not real confidence, but the hope of trust. Will you disappoint me? Will I disappoint you? Hopefully not. So the real question should read, want you to trust…

Selling Spirituality: no pain – no gain?

Without qualification we accept that a personal sense of self (an ‘I’ that does things and a ‘me’ to whom things are done) is essential for a healthy, happy every-day kind of life. Yet throughout history mystics from all religions have sought the opposite experience of ‘no-self’ to grasp the ultimate truth – a reality…

The Truth is out there … really

Man is a truth-seeking creature. How’s that for a statement of belief? And it is a statement of belief ; for there is no proof of it. And yet I have come across very few people who do not believe it, either explicitly or implicitly. But what is Truth? How often do we seriously consider…

Cats in the Craddle (VIDEO)

My child arrived just the other day Came to the world in the usual way But there were planes to catch and bills to pay He learned to walk while I was away He was talkin fore I knew it And as he grew he said, Im gonna be like you, dad, You know Im…